A Beautiful Lie
A BEAUTIFUL LIE
The algorithm of love —
a passion but a drag
Your artificial tear, my artificial smile — my better instinct, yours still sold: What if I told you these feels are unreal?
Isn’t it ‘bout different things, completely in contrast to all of these one tends to assume, entirely unlike one’s used to feel, to think, to express? Guess, it’s obvious: Everyday life means treason — of dependants, of friends, of sweethearts.
All of these acts — emotions, doings, talks — are used for the any purpose of multilateral prizefighting, sweethearts of romantic flavour sold down the river. Enterprises forge deals of profit, politicians lure for trades of sway, human’s meant just another shape of public property. Conscious, mentals, bodily functions? A thing of radio remote and all of its transmissions it is — made for decision-making in terms of enigmatically mediation.
The bilateral approach of ordered pair
The retention of power, staged on the shoulders of dwarfs, often depicted it is in bilateral disputes of argument, means couples used to split the pots — paid on the daily.
The process behind: While representing a face of yours any interaction needs the potential of clearance. All of these strong-and-weak ties (SAW) gathered all your way down long for connectivity. Thus, at the end of the day the partner needs be brought into line — has to be at eye-level, more generally told.
First beforehand, the phasing of cooptation — a process often taken for Futterneid, the jealousy about food, the struggle for prey, swag, or loot. To nautical spheres again it’s meant to drop some cargo, spinning its arrival to pathway and departure.
Buzz word: clearance
1️⃣ It starts with a request for reciprocal advance, meant to spin the strong-and-weaks (SAW) captured — exemplified, the kiss. 💋
2️⃣ What follows up, an act of clearing it is, the incumbrance courting action. Its debt: the mutual offset of spotting the mild-and-weaks (MAW) — made to set ’em all to sweetheart’s affiliates, colleagues, acquaintances, fellows, friends, buddies, and dependants. It might be some small talk, it may be in spans of silence, mighty it is anyhow — in a nutshell neutralisation. 👅
3️⃣ The watershed, the spot of approval to proceed, opens the gates. Means, the net is closed-meshed enough — the crossings are set. To increase the symbolic capital of each one participating, to keep the contacts earned exchanged. In a nutshell: The contracting’s done well, the symbolic capital saved. 👄
Short regression, catch phrase mirror neurons — the denyer algorithm within:
1️⃣ 😘 matching.EventListener(A) { X, Y; }
2️⃣ 🧐 pacing.EventListener(B) { Y, Z(X); }
3️⃣ 👊 rapport.EventListener(A, B) { clear; }
Even a programmer’s got some soulful. Nevertheless, it’s same ol’ plot of “do X ’til it’s done” — below illustrated in terms of ease (UX/UI):
1️⃣ 🙄 If X then Y — the thread of constant concern
2️⃣ 🤔 While X do Y — the loop of persistent questioning
3️⃣ 🥱 EventListener(X, Y) — the sleep mode of sting operation
All of these aboves illustrate the daily base of this small little thing called love. Taking a look around to the bigger picture, it’s a similar motion — idiomly: They bring me to you.
1️⃣ The search for a (new) partner starts with the request to set one to the list. The strong-and-weaks (SAW) are thrown in the ring — illustrated by some profile on Tinder. The algorithm behind, it’s same ol’ drag of forced marriage and castes — concealed under the disguise of free love. Who’s at eye-level? Who’s attracting? Who rejoins? A triggered, node-wired, and app-computed process, tainted some free choice. 🤳
2️⃣ Behind the curtain, the mutual offset of spotting the mild-and-weaks (MAW). Who’s really matching to save the power of interpretation, the public perception of the greater good, a regime, an employer, some family tree? Thus, the benchmark for processing is defined by the equilibrium of coherent groups, the balanced field of voltage made of peers and nodes.👾
3️⃣ The approval to proceed, put to this greater sense, it doesn’t mean some affair or one-night-stand. Of course any interaction of everyday life is triggered same kind of matchmaking, levelling the impact. The answer again lies within relations — for short, within the symbolic capital one’s earned all the way down. It needs be kept saved. Thus, a partner has to perform a particular service: To put anybody in, it needs some potential to merge — an opponent’s complete history to own ties of heritage (SAW/MAW). 👫🏼
Castes, forced love, given marriages — it’s ‘bout ties that bind, granted. Anyhow, in the end it’s none but splitting hairs. Ever thought about the outset, the radio remote transmission of enigmatically manner, its radiation of human minds and tides? All in all human means a snap, some petty disposable in time.
Thus, anyone’s familiar to zillions. Since being made a radioactive toy, presence is a matter of maps of bodily and territorial aerials. Cellulars made nodes, the nodes again apps setting any being to dime a dozen folks of function — of any kind, race, religion, and gender. So, how dare anyone to treat love some lightly? Tainted it is wherever you go, abandoned anyhow — some might say: never been.
